{"id":554,"date":"2014-11-19T23:13:52","date_gmt":"2014-11-20T08:13:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cms.shelquist.us\/?p=554"},"modified":"2014-11-20T03:26:55","modified_gmt":"2014-11-20T12:26:55","slug":"nov-19-relief-for-the-care-taker","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cms.shelquist.us\/?p=554","title":{"rendered":"Nov. 19 &#8211; Relief for the Care-taker"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"shariff\" data-title=\"Nov. 19 &#8211; Relief for the Care-taker\" data-info-url=\"http:\/\/ct.de\/-2467514\" data-backend-url=\"https:\/\/cms.shelquist.us\/wp-content\/plugins\/shariff-sharing\/backend\/index.php\" data-temp=\"\/tmp\" data-ttl=\"60\" data-service=\"gftr\" data-services='[\"googleplus\",\"facebook\",\"twitter\",\"reddit\",\"info\"]' data-image=\"\" data-url=\"https:\/\/cms.shelquist.us\/?p=554\" data-lang=\"en\" data-theme=\"colored\" data-orientation=\"horizontal\"><\/div><p><a href=\"https:\/\/cms.shelquist.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/caregiver.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-555\" src=\"https:\/\/cms.shelquist.us\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/caregiver.jpg\" alt=\"caregiver\" width=\"377\" height=\"211\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>In Hospice many of the people who provide the 24 care for the patient are family members.\u00a0 While they are not ill, being on duty constantly for a sick family member is emotionally, physically, and spiritually draining.\u00a0 So each person who provides care needs to come up with plans for their own self-care.\u00a0 Another word we use for this is \u201crespite\u201d.\u00a0 Respite is a chance to be off-duty and do something meaningful to you.\u00a0 For some situations this takes the form of a scheduled relief person to come into the home so the care-giver can get out of the house to attend an event or simply to relax.\u00a0 The longer the illness goes on the more important it is for the person providing care to intentionally think about their own needs and make plans to meet them.\u00a0 I always encourage people to get short breaks from their home care responsibility and paint it for them in terms of caring for themselves is also a way of caring for the patient because patients don\u2019t want to perceive themselves as being a burden to those they love.\u00a0 When I hear stories of people getting their first respite break and how energized it empowered them to be I congratulate them.\u00a0 Inside I feel glad that they decided to take care of their own needs as well as those of the patient.<\/p>\n<p>This brings me to my question for the day, \u201c<strong>What do you need to do today to care for yourself<\/strong>?\u201d\u00a0 It is a question that none of us should overlook whether or not we are providing health care to a family member.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; In Hospice many of the people who provide the 24 care for the patient are family members.\u00a0 While they are not ill, being on duty constantly for a sick family member is emotionally, physically, and spiritually draining.\u00a0 So each person who provides care needs to come up with plans for their own self-care.\u00a0 Another &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/cms.shelquist.us\/?p=554\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Nov. 19 &#8211; Relief for the Care-taker<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-554","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/cms.shelquist.us\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/554","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/cms.shelquist.us\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/cms.shelquist.us\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cms.shelquist.us\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cms.shelquist.us\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=554"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/cms.shelquist.us\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/554\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":556,"href":"https:\/\/cms.shelquist.us\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/554\/revisions\/556"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/cms.shelquist.us\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=554"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cms.shelquist.us\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=554"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/cms.shelquist.us\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=554"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}